THE NEW AGE REQUIRES NEW HEALERS AND NEW HEALING MODALITIES (4)

In the helping or healing professions it is not uncommon that clients or patients are being manipulated – often without their noticing it. The greatest means of exerting pressure is fear. As is common in many branches of business, many so- called helpers in the healing professions regrettably have joined that “business with fear.” First fear is generated, then help is offered and soon the manipulation machinery is running at high speed. Unfortunately, this can frequently be seen as well in situations where the healer tries to talk his patients into buying products or medications that are not really necessary but generate a nice extra income for him. One should also be especially on one’s guard against healers who wish to create dependencies. Often these are individuals who pose as being very spiritual and knowledgeable, yet at closer examination reside on the dark side of power, wanting to bind people to themselves through manipulation and creating fear.

Guiding Toward Personal Responsibility

The quality of a helper or healer can be measured in terms of how well he supports his clients on the path toward personal responsibility. Recovery and a fulfilling life can only “function” if the client recognizes that he and only he is responsible for it. He can of course seek help and support, but in the final analysis he must assume personal responsibility in order to achieve health or to remain healthy.

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‘’¡INTEGRAD VUESTRO EGO!’’ Mensaje de Maestro Ascendido Saint Germain.

’’Saludos, soy Saint Germain. En ocasiones se me asocia con la libertad en las relaciones.   Como podéis imaginar, los Maestros Ascendidos no solo estamos relacionados con temas específicos, sino que os apoyamos en diferentes ámbitos de vuestra vida. Por ello, algunos de nuestros temas más importantes coinciden. Me gustaría revelaros un aspecto importante sobre el ego, algo de lo que aún no sois conscientes y que, sin embargo, parece esencial para vosotros. Por lo que sé, muchas personas descuidan su ego, ya que piensan que es una gran debilidad humana. Los hay incluso que lo confunden con el egocentrismo.

Tratad de recordar el momento en el que vivíais en el Amor Total, en la unidad, como chispas de consciencia divina. En esos días, decidisteis emprender un viaje más allá de la fuente divina para tener ciertas experiencias, ya que ahí no conocíais nada más que el amor.

En vuestro camino a través de las experiencias de aprendizaje de la dualidad no habríais llegado muy lejos solo con el amor incondicional. Si solo hubierais albergado amor en vuestro interior, ¿cómo habríais podido experimentar la envidia, el odio, la ira o la hostilidad?

Esta es la razón por la que creasteis lo que ahora llamáis vuestro ‘ego’. El ego es muy importante para sobrevivir en la dualidad, para tener experiencias y evolucionar. Es el motor y estímulo para experimentar todos los aspectos de las existencia humana y para vivir todos los sentimientos; esto os permite conoceros mejor a vosotros mismos. Sin el ego no podríais existir en la dualidad.

El egocentrismo es algo totalmente diferente.   Una persona egocéntrica es aquella que solo piensa en sí misma, sin reparar en los problemas y necesidades de los demás. Todos habéis experimentado el egocentrismo en la dualidad y vuestro ego os ayudó en ello.

¿Qué significa para vosotros el hecho de que todos tengáis ego? Amadlo, aceptadlo y agradeced que haya sido vuestro motor, vuestro piloto automático a través de numerosas encarnaciones. No os enfrentéis a él ni lo rechacéis; integradlo como una parte de vosotros, porque vuestro ego se transformará con vosotros por sí solo. Y llegado el día en el que ya no lo necesitéis, desaparecerá. Entonces sabréis que os habéis convertido en Maestros y que estáis en el camino de vuelta a la fuente divina. Eso no significa que tengáis que abandonar la Tierra, sino que vuestro ‘programa de aprendizaje en la dualidad’ está llegando a su fin.

Estoy con vosotros para enseñaros lo que significa la transformación del ego. Seguid este camino con serenidad, paz y alegría. Yo soy vuestro hermano, yo soy vuestro amigo.

¡Yo soy Saint Germain! Os envío mis saludos.’’

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‘The ego and ascension.’ Message from Ascended Master Saint Germain

“Greetings, dear ones! I am Saint Germain. I would like to present you an important message on the topic of ego, which seems to be an essential and hidden issue for you. Many of you think that the ego is a great human weakness, and some even confuse it with egotism.

Can you imagine a time when you lived as all-love, divine unity and as a divine spark of awareness, where you experienced only love? As beautiful as that was, you would not have the opportunity for soul growth that comes from the learning experiences of duality. These insights into your actions, thoughts and feelings can give you a way to know yourself better, what translates into progress in the growth of your soul.

When you decided to journey outside the divine source to have human experiences in the world of duality, the ego was created. It became an indispensable tool for survival, growth experiences and your development. The ego is the driving force for experiencing ALL aspects of being human.

What should you do with your ego? Could you love it, accept it and be grateful that it has been your guidance system through numerous incarnations? Instead of fighting against it or rejecting it, invite the healthy ego to become a more integrated part of you. You and your ego will be transformed together.

When you have become a Master of yourself and your ego, you will have started your journey back to the divine source. You will not have to leave the earth, but you will be living in the consciousness of an Ascended Master.

I am Saint Germain!“

 

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LA NUEVA ERA NECESITA NUEVOS SANADORES Y NUEVOS MÉTODOS (3)

Permanecer en equilibrio interior


Cuando un sanador de la Nueva Era no está centrado y no cree en sí mismo y en sus facultades, antes o después se quedará sin pacientes. Cuanto más se salga de su equilibrio interior por razones emocionales o por otras, con más intensidad lo percibirán los demás ¡Como es dentro es afuera, como es arriba es abajo! Esta ley cósmica será aún más evidente que antes en el proceso de transformación. Aunque esto tiene la ventaja de que las ovejas negras y los charlatanes que haya entre los sanadores se podrán reconocer y desenmascarar más rápido.

Reconocer la predisposición de los clientes


En el futuro se requerirá prestar más atención a la predisposición interna de un paciente o cliente para buscar ayuda. Si la predisposición interna no está lo suficientemente presente, se puede uno ahorrar todos los intentos de ayudar a esta persona. Pues si en su interior no está dispuesto –y aquí no hablo de una predisposición que surge de la mente– todo esfuerzo por ayudarle será en vano. Una voluntad muy escasa o inexistente conducirá siempre a un proceso de sanación insuficiente.

Querer ayudar desde el corazón


Para trabajar con éxito en un futuro lejano en una profesión relacionada con la sanación, se precisa una actitud interior honesta y sincera hacia el cliente. Si a los médicos, naturópatas o sanadores lo que les importa en primer lugar es su propio bienestar financiero, no podrán existir a largo plazo en la energía de la Nueva Era. Cuanto más avanzado esté el proceso de transformación, menos será posible estafar en estas profesiones.

 

 

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THE NEW AGE REQUIRES NEW HEALERS AND NEW HEALING MODALITIES (3)

Remaining in Inner Balance

If a healer for the new age does not reside in his center or does not believe in his capabilities, he will sooner or later be unable to find any patients. As soon as he drifts out of his center, either for emotional or other reasons, people will sense this more and more clearly. As inside, so outside, as above, so below! In the course of the transformation process this cosmic law will be even more evident than before. The advantage here is, however, that black sheep and charlatans among the healers will be more quickly unmasked and identified as such.

Recognizing the Readiness of the Client

In the future it will be more important to pay attention to the inner readiness of the individual, the patient or client who is seeking help. If the readiness is not sufficient, we can spare ourselves all attempts to help this person. If he is not truly ready from within – and here I am not speaking of a readiness born from the intellect – every effort to help him is a waste of effort. Too little or no readiness will always result in an inadequate healing process.

A Heartfelt Desire to Help

To successfully work in a healing profession in the future, a sincere and honest inner attitude toward the client is necessary. If a physician, health practitioner or healer is first and foremost interested in personal financial gain from his work, he will in the long run be unable to exist in the energy of the new age. The more the transformation process will advance, the less pure rip-off will be possible in the healing professions.

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“¡EL MUNDO SERÁ FEMENINO!” Mensaje de Maestra Ascendida María Magdalena.

“Yo os saludo, soy María Magdalena. Muchos me conocéis como la esposa de Jesús, aunque también hay personas que niegan este hecho. Pero eso no importa ahora, ya que voy a hablaros sobre energías del presente y del futuro.

 

Ha llegado el momento de que regrese, porque estáis viviendo grandes cambios en todas las facetas de vuestra vida, ¡sin excepción! Es la hora de que os liberéis de viejas estructuras, valores y puntos de vista. Es mi tarea acompañaros y apoyaros en ello.

 

Los temas que aprendisteis en tiempos pasados y que habéis experimentado en un gran número de encarnaciones en los últimos 20 000 años, serán cada vez menos importantes. Habéis sido capaces de afrontar un montón de experiencias que os dieron la oportunidad de crecer a nivel personal y espiritual. Por eso vuestro viaje en la dualidad ha sido tan importante.

 

Nuestro ejemplo debería servir para ilustrar cómo pueden vivirse las relaciones. Con respeto mutuo y admiración. En aquellos tiempos esto era poco habitual, ya que las mujeres no tenían la misma condición social que los hombres. Su labor era servir y no se les permitía expresar sus opiniones. Solo a las chicas jóvenes de buena familia se les enseñaba griego y a leer y escribir. También aprendían arte y técnicas de sanación.

 

Jesús y yo teníamos una relación igualitaria porque él sentía un gran respeto por todas las mujeres. También fue él el que me eligió como su sucesora oficial, pero, como ya sabéis, la historia tomó un rumbo diferente. Los poderosos de aquellos días se negaron a aceptarme como sucesora por el simple hecho de ser mujer.

 

Ahora, igual que entonces, hay pocas mujeres que desempeñen un papel central en la sociedad y sin embargo hay muchas que se dedican a servir. Renuncian para dejar paso a los hombres, para permitirles estar al mando. Por eso, muchas mujeres no viven plenamente su potencial y se sientes incapaces, estúpidas o poco importantes. Hay veces que también viven su sexualidad de forma equivocada, ya que piensan que es necesario adoptar un papel determinado para satisfacer a los hombres. También las hay que piensan que deben mantenerse firmes en un mundo masculino.

 

Mucha energía suave y femenina acompaña la transición hacia la Nueva Era. La siguiente frase describe muy bien este fenómeno: ‘El mundo se está volviendo femenino’. Pero no olvidéis que no se trata de pasar del patriarcado al matriarcado. Aquí y allá se observa a un número de mujeres cada vez mayor adoptando características masculinas para ser iguales que los hombres. La feminidad es una energía muy poderosa; podríais llamarla una ‘esencia divina’. Solo un equilibrio armonioso entre la masculinidad y la feminidad traerá la igualdad que deseamos.

 

En estos días estoy muy presente y me llena de felicidad acompañaros y apoyaros como hermana, amiga y consejera. ¡Estoy a vuestro lado!

 

¡Soy María Magdalena!’’

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‘The world is becoming female!’ Message from Ascended Master Mary Magdalene.

“Greetings, dear ones! I am Mary Magdalene. Many of you know me as Jesus’ wife, however, others dismiss this fact – it does not matter. I would like to talk to you about the energies of the present and future.

I am here with you energetically while you undergo a great change and upheaval in every part of your life. There are no exceptions! It is time for you to be free from old structures, values and views. It is my task to accompany and support you.

Your lessons from ancient times, experienced in numerous incarnations in the past 20,000 years, will gradually decrease in their importance to you. You have had many experiences, that gave you the opportunity to develop personally and spiritually; that is the reason your journey in duality has been important.

I was a living example of how partnership can be, with mutual respect and admiration. In ancient times this partnership was unusual, since women had lower social status than men. Women were only there to serve, and not allowed to express an opinion. Girls from good families were the only ones educated in writing, reading, learning Greek, or trained in art and healing techniques.

Jesus and I lived an equal relationship; he had the utmost respect for all women and chose me as his official successor. Those in power would not accept me as a woman for his successor and history took a different turn.

Then, as now, many women do not play a central role in society, but a serving one. They are expected to make space for men, or let them take the lead. Many women do not live to their full potential and consider themselves less important than men or they take on masculine characteristics trying to become equal with men. Women also compromise their sexuality, playing a role to keep men satisfied, or to hold their ground in the male world.

The transition to the New Age is accompanied by soft, feminine energy, I here to tell you that the world is becoming female. Do not forget, this transition is not about turning from patriarchy to matriarchy. Balance and harmony between masculine and feminine will bring the equality we are longing for.

I am present and happy to accompany and support you as a sister, friend or consultant. I am on your side!

I am Mary Magdalene!”

 

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HOW TO DETECT EMOTIONAL MANIPULATION

We are all more or less, emotionally manipulated by others, or wrapped around their fingers. But, on the other hand, we also know exactly how it works to achieve something the other one does not really want. We already knew how to do this when we were small. Think back to the time when you were a little girl. I am sure you knew what to do to get another ice-cream, or stay out longer in the evening.

Back then you unconsciously used mechanisms which were so effective that adults surrendered to your wishes. It is all the more surprising then that we do not notice as adults when someone tries to force their will upon us. This happens so subtly that we can only see it afterwards (if at all).

AT FIRST SIGHT IT APPEARS HARMLESS, BUT THEN …

It is one thing to captivate one’s father with a small girl’s charm until we get what we want. But once we are grown up, we are never satisfied. Then it is not about chocolate, but about putting pressure on somebody else.

Emotional manipulation is a slow process which we are not aware of at the beginning. Only when we start to feel uncomfortable because others intimidate us with their tears, screams or by withholding their love, do we notice that there is something wrong. Exactly: we think there is something wrong with US. But in reality the problem lies in the others.

The weaker one’s self-esteem, the easier it is to manipulate us, the more we feel guilty if we do not meet the other one’s expectations. And the harder we try to make everything better in order not to disappoint the other one.

THIS IS THE WAY YOU CAN RECOGNIZE EMOTIONAL MANIPULATION

There are clear signs and hints that show someone is manipulating you; and sometimes this manipulation can happen subconsciously. It is often a manipulation pattern which we have seen from our parents and copied. It used to be normal and, therefore, we did not think about it.

It is well established that we women are more easily manipulated than men. Over centuries women were at the mercy of social pressure and the moods of their male companions. They did not dare to neglect the claims of the male dominated society. Although in the 21st century we have discovered the old patterns and feel equal, we still fall back into the innate or acquired behaviour patterns of our mothers and grandmothers. This might be based on the fact that at the genetic level these behaviour patterns have been passed on through generations of women. And on the energetic level through the morphologic field.

THIS IS THE WAY YOU CAN NOTICE SOMEONE IS TRYING TO WRAP YOU ROUND THEIR LITTLE FINGER

Now we come to the six typical characteristics of emotional manipulation which are all connected:

  • You are faced with demands which are at the beginning quite subtly put, for example, “I could borrow your car, couldn’t I?”
  • First you show some resistance or say NO. It might sound like this, “I don’t want to lend my car, not to anybody!”
  • The NO is not accepted and so pressure is put on you. It may sound like this, “You do love me, don’t you? Why can’t I use your car?”
  • If this does not help, the pressure is increased and, subsequently turns into a threat. In our case it might be, “If you refuse such a tiny thing like lending your car, I feel forced to think about finishing our relationship!”
  • Depending on the personality, there is either an end to putting pressure on, and the manipulator has to realize he can’t get any further, or, the next round starts. The victim can’t see any possibility other than giving in. “Well, if you really think so, then take the car. I want to have a harmonious relationship. This is the most important thing for me.”
  • Giving in lays the foundation of repeating the manipulation. If the manipulated person does not do anything against it, this situation is repeated in different areas of life. This goes on until the victim changes behaviour, forcing the manipulator to change his manipulative behaviour pattern. Maybe the relationship is even ended.

In one of my next blog from this series I will describe how to recognize people who successfully keep manipulating others.

Forward, Susan; Frazier, Donna: Emotional Blackmail: When the People in Your Life Use Fear, Obligation, and Guilt to Manipulate You

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THE RED MOON OR: THE FEMALE MENSTRUAL CYCLE (1)

When we talked about ‘Auntie Mona from Arizona’ as young girls, this was the secret word for our menstruation. It totally got on our nerves, as we felt restricted in our freedom of movement. Many of us suffered from physical problems during this time.

MENSTRUATION: SACRED OR UNCLEAN?

What we did not know as girls (we were much too young and had not received any information from our mothers): the time of menstruation was recognized and respected in ancient cultures, and  women developed certain practices to handle these strong energies in a creative way.

However, patriarchal societies discredited menstruation, as they considered this feminine power as dangerous. So the feminine cycle, which was once sacred, became something unclean. These taboos concerning menstruation are not at all restricted to primitive societies or the past, but still exist in various religions and social classes.

CONSCIOUS EXPERIENCE

A spiritual awareness which affects an increasing number of women, causes a totally new view of the menstrual cycle. Therefore, the energies during the menstrual cycle should be consciously accepted and not suppressed. This means:

  • allowing mood fluctuations on the energetic and emotional level
  • giving way to the inner need to retreat
  • enjoying the development of a stronger feminine awareness
  • noticing the harmony between the cycle of the moon and one’s own cycle
  • etc.

In her book ‘Red Moon. Understanding and using the creative, sexual and spiritual gifts of the menstrual cycle’ Miranda Gray describes four different energies that are noticeable during the menstrual cycle. I will tell you more about it in my next blog.

WHAT DO YOU RESPOND TO?

Read my questions and consider the feelings they arouse. Maybe you feel like writing down your thoughts:

  • What were you shown and told as a girl about menstruation?
  • Can you remember your first menstruation?
  • How do you feel about your days of menstruation?
  • Do you suppress your menstruation or do you consciously experience it?
  • Do you envy men because they do not suffer from the strains of menstruation?
  • Can you feel different qualities of your energies during your menstrual cycle (ovulation, after ovulation, menstruation, time before the next ovulation)?

WITH THE POWER AND WISDOM OF OUR FEMININE PRIMORDIAL NATURE

It is time to look at our menstrual cycle with different eyes. Society has gradually turned towards masculine requirements over the last decades, and we women subordinated our needs to the demands of a society dominated by males. We have more or less locked our menstruation away because it was obstructive to our physical performance. But a growing feminine awareness  has arisen amongst us women.

As soon as we recognize our menstrual cycle as a basic feminine source of energy and feminine spiritual awareness, the menstrual cycle turns into an appreciated part of our lives which we do not want to miss out on.

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THE NEW AGE REQUIRES NEW HEALERS AND NEW HEALING MODALITIES (2)

Doctors and health practitioners learn an unbelievable amount during their many years of training, and in their practice they gather rich with which to help sick people. This is not be questioned. Classic medical training and traditional alternative methods are the foundation on which our current health system is built, and which we cannot do without. But in the future we should not limit ourselves to this. In parallel with scientific medical research it will be imperative to open up to new aspects of healing. The new age needs new forms of healing and it also requires “new age physicians!”

Developing Interdimensional Consciousness

In the future, the capabilities and successes of medical professionals and healers will, more than ever before, be tied to their own spiritual growth. No one can, for example, teach Japanese if he has not himselflearned this language, now one can perform holistic spiritual healing, if he has not himself expanded and aligned his consciousness with the newinterdimensional levels. This however, requires honest self-examination, personal and spiritual development and intensive inner work. Likewise, this means occupying oneself with the interdimensional side of our human existence and allowing spirituality to be part of one’s own life.

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