STOP GETTING IN YOUR OWN WAY AND GIVE UP YOUR FEAR OF BEING ALONE! 10 Steps for women who finally want to fulfil their potential (3/10)

Susanne, a long-standing client, once told me that she was already 32 when she first went into a restaurant for dinner on her own. She felt watched by all the other guests which, of course, was not the case. It was her who could not handle this unusual situation. Why? Because for all her life she had gone out with her parents, her friends or her husband. She never thought that she could do this alone as well.

Why do so many women still have a problem with being alone?

Three answers immediately come to my mind:

  • Because they are scared of loneliness
  • Because they feel pushed to the edge of society
  • Because they do not know what to do with themselves

Many women fear being alone most of all. They prefer living in less than perfect relationships, or remaining in unhappy partnerships to living a life by themselves.

Then again there are others, such as Susanne, who feel like outsiders as soon as they attend social events on their own. They fear not to be taken seriously without a man by their side, or being approached by unsympathetic men.

Many women in solid relationships have also not learned to treat themselves with some time-out, to spend hours or days by themselves, free of partners, family or everyday life. They simply do not know what to do with themselves, cannot deal with themselves, or have not interests and hobbies they could take up.

No idea how to arrange one’s life

Many women have no idea how to arrange their life joyfully. They think they can rely on being entertained, engaged or – worst case – dictated to by others. At the same time being on one’s own offers a great deal of advantages, such as

  • being flexible
  • acting self-determinedly
  • living independently and free
  • acting with self-responsibility
  • planning one’s time freely
  • being able to make spontaneous decisions
  • getting to know oneself better

Well, still not convinced? Maybe I should carry on with some more persuasiveness in one of my next blogs!

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‘When you were born, I was with you!’ An Angel message for you

“Greetings, dear ones! I am Angel Aliel. I accompany many children during and after birth, particularly those who have problems arriving on planet earth. You have to consider that souls need to bring their high energy frequencies down in order to inhabit an earthly body. The difference in the vibration of the light, heavenly spheres, and your earth, is very high. This creates problems for a lot of people here on earth, and it takes some of them years or even decades to manage this process of adjustment.

If a soul decides to incarnate and the mother conceives her child, the soul of the child is briefly in the mother’s body, or at least very close to it, at the time of conception. It takes a soul some months to really connect with the embryo, the baby’s body. As I have mentioned previously, some souls take years to completely become embedded in the child’s body.

In many ways birth is a great challenge for the soul. it gives up its ‘heavenly home’ for a new life, leaving other beloved souls behind. This is often a painful process, especially when they are leaving a dual soul. Sometimes these dual souls have agreed not to incarnate, at the same time, or shortly after one another, and one of them stays behind in the higher dimension. From there it accompanies the other soul through its earthly life.

Nevertheless I would like to emphasize that people often have a much too romantic picture of dual souls. The separation of souls I am talking about, often creates more than two dual souls. This is diffictult to distinguish in your current language. However, the difference is not so important at this point.

Some souls decide to turn around at the last minute, just before or during birth. Maybe because they are scared of this earthly life, maybe because they have arranged this exact scenario with their future parents’ souls before, or maybe because it is part of their karmic mission. Some souls enter this earthly life and leave it again soon afterwards. All these cases spark off deep transformation processes with parents who allow this, who do not suppress stillbirth, but are ready to deal with it. Many people do not know that souls who come to earth as miscarriages or abortions, try to incarnate again, either in the same family or in the surroundings of their parents, or mothers. This should comfort all those who have supposedly lost a child in this way.

When the children grow up, I am on their side, helping and supporting their souls to be embedded in their bodies, because some of them, and also some adults, flee energetically on to another level as soon as difficulties arise. They remain in their physical body, thinking, they can’t really feel themselves properly. Call on me in situations like this because I am always there for you!“

 

channeled by Ingrid Auer (c) www.ingridauer.us

 

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‘I give you strength!’ An Angel message for you

‘Greetings, dear ones! My name is Graviel and I once helped you to get grounded as a newborn and infant, and to get used to the energies of your new planet. You have to know that as ‘souls’ you live in other dimensions with very high frequencies, moving around virtually at the speed of light. Furthermore, you can be at different places at the same time, just as the great masters used to, such as Jesus or Saint Germain. As souls you are detached from time and space because you move in a different dimension of being.

Well, after you have decided to incarnate again, your ‘clothes’, or your ‘vehicle’ is realigned to the new basic frequency as a person. You do not only define your life plan, the place, time and circumstances of your conception and birth, but also the frequency you will use on earth. This may change from time to time in the course of your lifetime. The more spiritually orientated you become, the higher your personal frequency will be, the more earthly and unconscious you live your life, the lower.

This should not be seen as judgement, but as necessity, or fact. Your planet earth vibrates with a certain frequency which can be compared with the average frequency of the entire population of the earth. Since the earth has entered the transformation process, you have been part of it. Your energies are inseparably connected with the energies of the earth.

Your technical achievements have created new, lower energy frequencies, such as nuclear power plants, high-voltage power lines, ultrasonic waves, to name but a few. Yes, even high-voltage power lines can have low frequencies. We are talking about energetic and spiritual vibrations, not technical. In addition there are the energies of the earth’s population. The more unconscious, materialistic or egotistic mankind is, the lower it vibrates. Together with the technical and radioactive devices which cover your earth like a network, a dense, dull and heavy energy is created.

And now imagine when you come from the realms of light, from the world of the unborn into the earthly atmosphere. What a shock! What an impact! What a clash of dense and high heavenly energies! It is not unusual that this shock is saved in you. Many souls have problems with the fact of becoming completely embedded in their physical body for years. It is one of my tasks to help children to get used to the energies of the earth without having to lower their high energies. I am always on your and their side!’

 

channeled by Ingrid Auer (c) www.ingridauer.us

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‘I am always with you!’ An Angel message for you

‘Greetings, dear ones! I am Angel Lyrael. It is one of my tasks to provide you with stability, to accompany and support you in times when you do not get enough security from other people, or you cannot cope with the consequences of decisions made.

Before your incarnation you came from another dimension of divine existence. Humans often describe this level as ‘heaven’, a term we will use in this message now. In this dimension you used to exist as multidimensional beings, not knowing time or space, equipped with divine awareness. You communicated with the angels, the ascended masters and other multidimensional beings on one level, exchanging views.

One day you decided to come back to earth, to begin a new incarnation. Together with your higher self, your closest guardian angels and other beings, you discussed your new life plan. You decided which of your potentials you would bring with you, which ones should be strong, buried or hidden. You also decided which challenges or difficulties you would have to face in your new life to make you grow and develop. And, of course, you also decided which people would accompany you, and who you would like to share your experiences and learning tasks with. This naturally included the woman and the man who would become your biological parents.

That is exactly the point. Your parents are souls like you. To become a human person they also pulled the veil of forgetfulness over their awareness along with all the mistakes and weaknesses that make up human life. From a higher level, you made this agreement with them before their incarnation.

Why would I want to tell you all this? Because you should understand that there are no perfect parents. You would not be able to experience important parts of your learning without them. Depending on your plans for this incarnation, the relationship with your parents had to be made either easy or more difficult. Try to look at this fact from a higher point of view. It is my task to protect children in difficult times, when they feel misunderstood, alone, isolated or lonely, and to give them the warmth they cannot get from their parents or other adults. ‘What use is this knowledge to me as an adult?’ I can hear you ask. Well, your soul does not know time and space, and therefore I can help you solve this deficit in hindsight, and transform the blockages and traumas, coming from your childhood. My energy, which is embedded in the angel symbol, can help you do so!’

Channeled Angel message (c) by Ingrid Auer

 

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STAND UP AGAIN AFTER DEFEATS!

Maybe you sometimes stand in the way of yourself and your own success because your expectations are too high. Or you are too strict with yourself – or you are too scared of failing.

Whereas one group of women is motivated by failures because they are convinced of themselves and their ideas, there is another group that gives up hastily and despondently. The reasons may be various, such as

  • fear of disappointing oneself and others,
  • feeling inadequate, too weak or too incapable,
  • only accepting absolute success, no partial success,
  • not coping with any further defeats,
  • being convinced of not deserving success,
  • not feeling loveable due to failure.

Therefore, it is important to question where your fears come from. Only then can you effectively weaken their power over you.

What do success and failure, victory and defeat, or passing and failing remind you of? Exactly! Your own childhood and school time!

Already, as a little girl, you were rewarded or criticized, depending on your performance. Therefore, fear of failure is an acquired behaviour pattern which you should desperately get rid of. It is a very one-sided judgement which forgets that there are so many other aspects and qualities within you and your life that make you loveable, valuable and unique. And they are not linked to success.

Therefore,

  • see your failures as chances for learning and developing,
  • recognize and transform your fear of failure,
  • follow your aims and wishes, even if they are not yet attainable, and
  • remain faithful to yourself!

And, above all – do not remain lying on the ground after a defeat! Because as the saying goes: falling over – standing up – straightening the crown, and going on!

 

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HOW MUCH OF GODDESS ATHENA IS IN YOU?

What has the Goddess Athena got to do with the women of today? Don’t we know her from the Greek legends? True! Only if we understand what archetype she stands for and what female part Athena represents in us women, can we learn to know more about ourselves. We can explore our behaviour, our needs and our qualities in a better way.

The American psychologist Jean Shinoda Bolen has been fascinated by the female soul and its facets for many years, and, therefore, she has entirely dedicated her professional life to women. She wrote down her knowledge on the different female archetypes, which is based on her work with thousands of women, in her world bestseller ‘Goddesses in Everywoman. Powerful Archetypes in Women’s Lives’. With her observations she could help her clients to discover and reawaken their strengths.

The so-called Goddesses have all along been symbols for the different aspects of the female soul. All the Goddesses-archetypes together, such as Aphrodite, Artemis, Athena, Demeter, Hestia, Hera and Persephone symbolize the different landscapes of a woman’s soul.

HOW MUCH OF ATHENA IS IN YOU?

If you want to get to know yourself better, feel within you. Which Goddess is particularly strongly pronounced in you? This time Athena is in focus.

Whilst thinking about the Goddesses-aspects of Athena within you, take care that you do not slip into judgements and stereotyped thinking. My information should only serve as inspiration:

ATHENA-SOUL ASPECTS: A BRIEF SUMMARY

Women with typical Athena-aspects are for instance intellectuals, scientists, politicians, artists and other career women

Typical topics of the Athena woman: well-groomed appearance/classic dress style – intellect – success – career – art and aesthetics – imparting of knowledge – reduction to the essential – self-control – efficiency

Typical for the Athena woman: loves intellectual challenges – only ‘heroes’ are possible partners – striving for her own career and success – critical – choosy – distance to other women – children do not play an important role – self-sufficient – very practically-minded

Shadows: weakly developed body sensation – dominating mind – control freak – emotional distance – intolerance

In my next and last blog of the Goddesses I will introduce you to the Goddess-aspects of Hestia.

 

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‘Mankind will be different!’ Message from Ascended Master Aurora.

“Greetings, dear ones! I am Aurora. Many people know me as the ‘Goddess of the Dawn’. They believe I am just an ancient mythical figure. The beings your ancestors used to call gods and goddesses are nothing but forms of awareness, or beings located on a higher level than humans. Likewise, with the Ascended Masters they have also developed into very high levels within your universe from where they can accompany mankind through the process of ascension.

You are challenged to keep questioning the image you have of yourself, and people like you, and to develop new views. Much has been said about this topic, but little has been understood. This is because you have been shaped and influenced by your ancestors, and their knowledge, over a long period of time. It will now take some time for you to learn to improve your perception and widen your horizons.

The children of the New Age have come to confront you with new ways of thinking. I literally mean ‘confront’ because some of them are extremely inconvenient for your society. They protest, they challenge you, they do not fit in, and they publicly proclaim their spirituality, even if many of you do not like it. But keep in mind, this is their task and the reason why they have come back – many of them voluntarily – although they have long left the wheel of reincarnation.

You call them by many names: Indigo children, crystal children, star children, rainbow children and dolphin children. It does not really make sense to categorize them like this even though people are used to labeling everything and, everyone in order to be able to classify things with the human mind. Yes, this is a deeply human characteristic which should be gradually shed.

A lot of children of the New Age live exactly how you would like to.  They love freedom, they are individual, curious, spiritual, jolly and carefree. But sometimes they use drastic means to wake you up and challenge you. Then they are inconvenient, stubborn, undisciplined, cheeky and unmanageable. Aren’t these the same characteristics you would like to live out, but do not dare to?

The children of the New Age need adults of the New Age on their side! Yes, this is you! You, who were born and raised in the awareness of the old age. You, who have worked hard to wake up the spirituality inside of yourself. Believe me, your spirituality can neither be activated by your thinking, nor with any sort of exercises. This does not work.

Your children are wise teachers, even if their souls inhabit a child’s body. Let your children take you by the hand and try to look at life through their eyes. Let them guide you, and believe what they tell you. Take them seriously when they talk about the spiritual world because they know what they are talking about. Provide a protective environment for them where they can feel secure, understood and safe because they will be confronted with great hostilities.

This is what I am asking for, this is my message for you!

Together we will change the world, which you are already doing!

I am Aurora!”

 

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