Appreciate and love the qualities of being HIGHLY SENSITIVE!

Are you highly sensitive, then you probably have a highly sensitive inner critic inside you. You surely know him very well because he keeps whispering into your ear that you

are not good enough

are not strong enough

are too emotional

are not tough enough

are not equal with others.

This particularly refers to us women, as for a long time it has been suggested that we are ‘the weaker sex’. Generations of women before us had to live with this stigma, but we are the ones who have had enough, and we can at last get rid of it.

But the fact is that many women rebel against their highly sensitive natures, instead of standing by them and appreciating them. They prefer taking on masculine patterns of acting hard, rather than living their feminine-sensitive attributes in a positive and constructive way.

Learning to appreciate and love the qualities of being highly sensitive

After all, how can we awaken our power and strength, if we deny important aspects of ourselves? Why do we want to waste our time and energy fighting against our sensitivity with ‘masculine determination’?

The first step to encounter and silence our inner critic is to find out where our restrictive belief patterns come from. Then we should watch which emotions they trigger off in ourselves, and how we normally react.

Once we have recognized this, we should take the next step of stopping to fight the inner critic. As soon as we realise that self-condemnation, feelings of guilt and self-reproach are useless, we can stand up for our sensitivity. Let’s concentrate on the many positive aspects our being highly sensitive provides, and let’s use it constructively. Mankind needs it and us! Today more than ever.

 

If you need help for self-help, think of my high vibrating Angel Aura Essence ARCHANGEL CHAMUEL. It can support you to love yourself as your are!

 

 

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Why HIGHLY SENSITIVE children are labelled too quickly

80% of adults are ‘normally sensitive’. You can easily put two and two together to see who writes the school curriculum for our children, and who writes and develops the teaching methods. It is usually the ‘normally sensitive adults’!

Therefore, it is not surprising that highly sensitive children are ignored when it is about responding to their needs. The problem starts with the fact that many adults do not even know about highly sensitive children. Many adults have a clichéd view of highly sensitive children as being:

  1. restless

Highly sensitive children are often called restless and exhausting because they react to certain situations, changes and tensions more sensitively.

But honestly: what one adult finds a pleasant scent, a reasonable volume or a good light, can be unpleasant for another. So why do we not allow highly sensitive children to feel differently? Why do we call them restless and fretful only because they express their irritation?

  1. shy

Highly sensitive children are often considered to be shy and are treated as such because nobody wants to make the effort to see the difference between being highly sensitive and being shy:

  • For a start highly sensitive and shy people keep their distance from strangers, watching them before they approach them.
  • However, highly sensitive children watch strangers very carefully, are curious, and after they have made their own judgement, they dare to make a step forward.
  • Whereas shy children avoid any eye contact, are tense, nervous, and seem unhappy when they are expected to approach strangers.
  1. introvert

Most people measure the state of being introvert or extrovert by the person’s sociability.

Introvert people often only have one or two friends, and they prefer this to being part of a big group. They would rather stay in the background, watching and thinking about what they see.

Extroverts like approaching others, talking to strangers and dealing with unfamiliar situations.

But there are also extroverts amongst the highly sensitive children! Therefore, it is important not to apply one standard to all, and automatically call highly sensitive children introvert.

  1. over-sensitive

Some experts with medical a background call the phenomenon of being highly sensitive a disorder. For them it is problematic when children are ‘too sensitive’, not being able to filter and coordinate external information and impulses.

This, for instance, appeals to behavioural therapists who apply sensory integration therapy to deal with the problem. They also see being over-sensitive as a problem which should be cured. (1)

Of course, highly sensitive children – just like normally sensitive ones – can have a sensory integration problem. However, seeing this high sensitivity as a basic problem, or wanting to therapeutically treat it, is for me an ‘over-sensitive reaction of insensitive adults’!

 

The classic among my spiritual tools in connection with children is the Angel Aura Essence ANGEL HARIEL. Not only is it the “spiritual emergency essence for children”, but it has also been used very successfully by people working on their inner child for years.

(1) Aron, Elaine N. ‘The Highly Sensitive Person’

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When being HIGHLY SENSITIVE becomes normal

Some people think the topic of being highly sensitive has become a new hype… Others, particularly the ones who are affected themselves, feel relieved that their being different has got a name at last, and that they are not alone. Because most of us do not know that 15 to 20 per cent of people are born highly sensitive (if you would like to know whether you belong to this group, then click here). I dare say that there are a lot more highly sensitive people than we think. However, let us start at the beginning:

In France Elaine N. Aron is considered among experts as the discoverer of high sensitivity. The psychologist already recognized in 1991 that many of her clients, who came for help and advice, showed the same behaviour patterns as herself. So they were obviously in the best hands. In the last years, the knowledge about high sensitivity spread, so that in bookshops you can find shelves filled with books on this topic.

THE HUMAN-EARTHLY VIEW

As in other areas of life, there are also different views on high sensitivity. Let’s start with the human-earthly one (I call it ‘programme one’ [1] or the frog-perspective):

Elaine N. Aron explains high sensitivity by an increased sensitivity to stimuli. This does not only appeal to the sense of hearing, sight and/or touch. The difference is somewhere on the way between the nerve and the brain, or in the brain itself, the processing of information. [2]

Let’s leave this explanation and look at a highly sensitive person from a different perspective, the bird’s-eye view, or ‘programme two’. [3]

THE SPIRITUAL VIEW

Also in the nineties the American medium Lee Carroll received the first messages from the spiritual world that there was a new type of man coming. We are talking about the so-called Indigo children, who show very unusual personality and behaviour patterns, and could only be occasionally be found before.

Many of their characteristics are congruent with ones of highly sensitive people. Indigo children are thin-skinned, sensitive to noise, delicate, feel other people’s conditions, or read their thoughts, are closely connected to the spiritual world, etc. In addition, they mainly do not behave according to expectations, at least to adults’ expectations.

INDIGO CHILDREN HAVE GOT A DIFFERENT LIFE PLAN

It is part of their life plan to be so unadjusted, to push adults out of their comfort zone. This sounds quite provocative, but in this short article I cannot go into detail. Besides their high sensitivity, they undermine old encrusted, and obsolete social norms with their being not adjusted.

Unfortunately the behaviour of Indigo children (as well as Crystal children) is often misinterpreted by adults as negative disturbed behaviour or mischief. Accordingly these children sometimes have to suffer the consequences for the rest of their lives.

The forerunners of these children were already born in the last decades of the 20th century, therefore, it is not surprising that there are already so many highly sensitive adults. I am strongly convinced that many of them show typical characteristics of Indigo children. With their being-different they also challenge their environment, and force it to question what is ‘normal’ and what is not… what should be changed in our society, and what should not…

ENERGETIC-SPIRITUAL BARRIER FOR HIGHLY SENSITIVE PEOPLE

Highly sensitive children and adults need a large degree of understanding, but they also need special tools which pick them up from where they are. Namely, a much higher vibrational level than the rest of the people live in.

Therefore, I am not surprised that the effects of my spiritual tools, such as the energized symbols and essences, are better ‘understood’ and perceived by highly sensitive people than normal sensitive ones. Above all, the angel aura essence Energetic Boundary which provides an energetic barrier in everyday life.

Many highly sensitive people report that they could not survive in today’s world with all its energetic challenges and burdens without this essence. And these burdening energies will not get less in the future, on the contrary.

[1] ‘programme one’: the earthly, material, intellectual level of awareness of human beings

[2] Aron, Elaine N.: The Highly Sensitive Person: How to Thrive when the World Overwhelms You. Broadway Books, 1997

[3]  ‘programme two’: the metaphysical or spiritual level of human existence

 

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When HIGHLY SENSITIVES have difficulty getting to know others

How do you feel at a party amongst pushing people and loud music? You do not go to such events in the first place? You avoid crowds, energies that burden you, screaming and noise? Is it possible that you are highly sensitive, too?

70 % of highly sensitive people are introvert, and anything but party animals

According to a study 70 % of highly sensitive people avoid parties, or other social events where it could get crowded. Intuitively they feel the ‘dense’ energies of others, and try to avoid them.

Also loud party music, bright lights, the blaring noise in a pub or bar, or booming bass sounds physically hurt them. It makes them feel uneasy if someone offends them, tries to question them, or interferes within their private sphere. Therefore, they prefer to avoid large scale social events of this sort.

Maybe you have experienced that

  • you feel unwell and isolated in crowds
  • you do not like to approach people you do not know, or start conversation
  • you find small talk more draining than profound conversation
  • you prefer listening rather than taking part in a conversation
  • you feel best close to the exit at a cinema, at a concert, or in large rooms
  • you enjoy being on stage as a creative, artistic person but like to retreat quickly after the event
  • you find the ringing of telephones, and telephone conversations, annoying
  • you prefer working on your own than in a team
  • you keep looking to retreat into nature.

Then how do you get to know new people?

As a highly sensitive person, it is probably very important for you to surround yourself and connect with deeper people who have an honest desire for true feelings, and like to communicate on a higher level.

It might be too tedious or difficult for you to get to know new people because too often you have experienced rejection or boredom.

Where would YOU preferably like to spend your free time? At an art exhibition, a retreat, a yoga weekend, a hiking tour, a beautiful concert, an interesting talk, among other people who are concerned about nature and environmental protection, at places with high energy, riding somewhere, … this is where you will meet new people who feel like you. Do not lose heart!

 

If you need help for self-help think of my high vibrating Angel Aura Essence ENERGETIC BOUNDARY. It works  on the subtle-spiritual body and helps to protect against energy losses, which are the result of daily interactions with other people. The angel energy builds up an energetic boundary, also helps with burnout, or energy leaks in the aura, in the chakras, and in a person’s subtle, non-physical field.

 

 

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HIGH SENSITIVITY and misinterpreted shyness

Have you ever thought about the difference between sensitivity and shyness? (High) sensitivity is related to a sensitive nervous system [1] and is heritable, shyness on the other hand, is a state of mind or a character trait and is never inherited.

Nevertheless, highly sensitive people are often wrongly labelled as shy, although all they need is quiet or distance from other people. Unfortunately, the word “shyness” carries negative connotations with many people and is confused with timidity, insecurity, nervousness, self-consciousness or diffidence, which can be very irksome for highly sensitive people (who are actually not shy).

DON’T LET YOURSELVES BE TALKED INTO ANYTHING!

Therefore, my dear highly sensitive people, make yourselves aware of the difference between sensitivity and shyness. Do not allow yourselves to be told by others that you are shy. After all, highly sensitive people are just like everyone else and are not invulnerable to self-fulfilling prophecies, and I am sure you can well do without those.

The Ascended Master MARTHA provides us with her energy in the form of an Aura Essence as a spiritual tool for inner stability and natural authority. It is especially suited for becoming aware of and living one’s power and strength.

[1] See: Aron, Elaine N. Sind Sie hochsensibel? MVG: München 2015. S. 30.

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Why mankind needs more HIGHLY SENSITIVE people

The world outside adjusts to the average, and when people think and act differently than the general public, they are called unworldly. They are even told that they live in a bubble, in an illusory or a fantasy world. This is why many highly sensitive persons think that they should adopt the “norm” or the “average” in order to be able to get along in the world and be accepted by it.

In the course of time, our society has developed many rules, guidelines, norms and constraints and decided what is good or bad, what is normal or abnormal, what makes sense and what does not. And then highly sensitive people come along and challenge what is “normal” through their otherness and different way of thinking. All I can say to that is, thank goodness!

But frequently it goes the other way around! After all, many highly sensitive persons consider themselves outsiders and condemn themselves for it. Instead of being proud of their gifts and abilities, precisely because they cast new light on the set norms, outdated rules or pointless guidelines, they are full of self-doubts. Moreover, they are hard on themselves and accept the mainstream more than their own feelings and their unusual characteristics and abilities.

We live in a time of transition and reorientation, which is why we need more of you and your “otherness”, my dear highly sensitive people, because the world needs to renew itself! And if you need loving support from the spiritual world for doing so, the Ascended Master Lady Rowena is a wonderful companion. If one could describe her energy in just one sentence, this sentence would read as follows: “Follow the call of your heart!”

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Of course there are HIGHLY SENSITIVE men

“An Indian knows no pain!” (German proverb) and “Boys don’t cry!”. Who among us does not know these sayings from their childhood? For centuries, the male role expectations have been shaped by a patriarchal society in which performance, toughness, discipline and strength play a very important role.

Living with an “actually highly sensitive man”

Thus, it is hardly surprising that many (young) men who were born highly sensitive or highly perceptive (approx. 15–20% of all men) are thrown into emotional turmoil because they are unable to live up to the traditional male ideals. Many of them would gladly stand by their emotionality, their sensibility or their sensitivity to pain, but they were taught to hide it or cover it up as children because giving in to such sentiments would be “unmanly”.

For this reason, it is no wonder that many women are taken by complete surprise when they realise that they live with an “actual highly sensitive man” who does not express his true self due to his education. Maybe he grew up among men who demanded emotional and physical toughness from him. Maybe he never learnt to talk about his true feelings and needs. Or maybe he is embarrassed by his high sensitivity and has learned to assume a role that has little or nothing to do with his true self.

Highly sensitive persons feel the effect of spiritual tools most clearly

Owing to such inner conflicts and identity problems, misunderstandings and crises can arise in relationships. However, these can be eliminated as soon as both partners endeavour to clear the air and are not afraid to discover new facets and aspects of themselves and others.

The spiritual world offers energetic help to all those who want to undergo an internal or external clarification process, for instance in the form of the Angel Aura Essence ARCHANGEL GABRIEL. This angel energy not only purifies the subtle body, e.g. the aura and chakras, but also provides support on the paths of self-awareness and re-orientation.

 

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