Greetings! We are two Angels from the Angel groups “Eloiah” and “Akabesh” speaking in their behalf. How often can we hear you groan and moan! Very often rightly because physical life is indeed no piece of cake. We deeply respect and highly esteem it. We watch and accompany you through your physical life and do sometimes wonder how we would handle certain situations. You have got high demands. You know that you have chosen your lessons in life. You did this at a time when you were still on the other, higher level. Before you started your present incarnation.

But we won’t talk about this now. Let’s talk about your self-pity and your moaning. Look at yourself closely next time you feel like the poor victim again. What is behind these situations? Do you really have to feel like the victim? Why do you take on this role? Out of fear, cowardice, convenience or because you grew into this role? Have one more close look at it. Interrupt your moaning and list all the reasons why you have found yourself in this situation, what life wants from you, who is involved in the situation. What is at the bottom of it all?

Then imagine you grow wings. You change your point of view, your perspective, the whole environment. You look at the situation from the bird’s-eye view. What can you see now? You don’t just see yourself and your misery, you also see what led to it, what is behind it. The essence of the story, your lesson, the exercise for you. Look carefully and see what you should learn.

Now think again and go back to the start: Do you really want to go on complaining? Do you want to keep feeling like a victim? Do you want to go on pitying yourself? Or do you rather want to say: Stop it! I take my life in my own hands, I face the facts, I realize my part in the whole story. Even if you have no direct influence on the situation, learn to accept it unconditionally. Complaining and self-pity weaken you, they are of no use at all. Okay, if you really need it, snuggle up in a corner for 15 minutes, moan, shout, cry … and then there should be an end to it. Focus the Divine strength inside you, concentrate on a positive result and connect yourself with the angels. You will see that you get away from your self-pity quickly.

Message transmitted by Ingrid Auer © http://www.IngridAuer.us