You absolutely have to watch this video! It shows a little girl who – unlike all the other mini ballerinas – does not dance the choreography she was taught, but dances to her heart’s content.

This video made me laugh, but also got me thinking. For this reason, I included this subject in my eSeminar “ALLOW LIFE TO SHOWER YOU WITH GIFTS”. Here is an extract of it:

“There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. … As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.” – Marianne Williamson –  

Be perfectly honest with yourself! Are you a yes-woman/yes-man? Because you 

_ do not want your peace of mind to be disturbed

_ do not feel up to an argument

_ consider yourself inferior

_ cannot express yourself that well

_ feel insecure

_ cannot express your own views that well

_ are afraid of conflict

_ cannot abide disagreements

_ like to accept a subordinate role to others.

 Have you been able to relate to one or more of these statements? How do you feel about it? Be perfectly honest and admit if you are not overly excited about it.

Maybe

_ you despise yourself for it

_ you are angry with yourself

_ you are dissatisfied with your weakness

_ you feel like a loser

_ you are frustrated

_ you feel not taken seriously.

It does not matter with which of the points you resonate, but you should definitely do something about it. To be able to please everybody is an illusion.

_ Firstly, it does not work out at all and

_ secondly, … why would you do that?

_ Is it your duty to make the world a happier place?

On the contrary! You should be mindful of your OWN happiness and take care that you do not stand in the way of your own felicity. ONLY YOU can do that! And ONLY YOU are responsible for it. What are you waiting for! The little ballerina shows you how it is done!